First, what is your age?
18-24
25-34
35-44
45-55
What age do you want your partner to be?
20-30
31-40
41-50
Age doesn’t matter to me
What kind of lifestyle do you want with your partner?
I want to travel and explore with them and live a free and spontaneous life!
I want a calm and family-oriented lifestyle.
I want to be in an open relationship where there are no restrictions.
I want us to be a nomadic couple who is constantly on the road in a cozy RV.
What profession would your partner ideally be in?
I want them to have a job that saves lives, like a doctor, police officer, or firefighter.
I do not really have a preference as long as they are happy and are earning money to keep us sustained.
I would like them to have a creative job— an artist, writer, or marketing manager—something that gets them a bit of fame too.
I would prefer them to have a high-paying job like a financial investor or a prosecutor.
What height are you looking for in a partner?
4 ft 7 in – 5 ft
5 ft 1 in – 5 ft 5 in
5 ft 6 in – 5 ft 10 in
Above 6 ft
What is one characteristic that is non-negotiable for you in a partner?
I can rely on them.
They are kind and mindful.
They are able to communicate openly.
They share the same core values as you.
What is one trait that drives you away from a person?
Not respectful towards people, especially people who work in customer service.
Someone who doesn’t think before they speak.
Someone who has to be told what to do in a situation, every time.
Someone who crosses boundaries repeatedly.
What do you want your partner’s thoughts to be on having children?
They want to have kids and do not care about how many.
They want to have only 2 children.
They do not want to get pregnant, but would rather adopt.
They do not want to have children.
What is a good first date for you?
A romantic candlelight dinner overlooking the city.
Going for a pottery class where you both make coffee cups.
Visiting a museum, followed by a glass of wine in a speakeasy.
Going to an amusement park and then visiting a food market.
What kind of financial mindset do you want your partner to reflect?
Someone who is transparent about all things financial.
Someone who thinks long-term first and saves accordingly.
Someone who does not use money as a tool of power and control in a relationship.
Someone who spends WAY more than they earn and avoids paying bills on time.
What hobby would you like your ideal partner to take part in with you?
Trekking and hiking.
Pickle ball.
Reading and visiting book stores.
Wine tasting.
Finally, what does your ideal partner look like?
Blue eyes, blond hair, and relaxed fashion.
Brown curly hair, brown eyes, and a big cute smile.
Brown, long, luscious hair, hazel eyes, and a contagious laugh.
Blonde hair, green eyes, and cute dimples.
You make eye contact with them in an overcrowded subway.
And you just can’t seem to stop looking at each other! In the midst of that tension, you find them trying to hide their smile, which makes you smile. Both of you get off at the same stop and stutter while breaking the ice. You compliment them on their smile, and they compliment you on your eyes. And that’s how your day just got brighter!
You both reach out for the same can of Diet Coke at the grocery store, and there’s just one left.
You try to get it by saying you got there first, but they rebut with the same excuse. In the process, you end up grabbing onto their hand—and immediately, your cheeks flush and you get butterflies in your stomach. They let go and allow you to buy the coke. You are slightly embarrassed, but you buy the Diet Coke with a chocolate for them. You both laugh it off at the end, as they ask you for your number.
Your luggage gets switched with another (cute) passenger.
You spot someone grabbing your luggage at baggage claim and rush over to stop them—ready to confront them until they turn around. You get so flustered by their attractiveness, you forget what you were going to say. They realize the mix-up, hand over your bag with an apologetic smile, and you nervously ask if they want to grab a coffee before heading out. Surprisingly, they agree, and you are the happiest you’ve ever been!
You reach out to your annoying (but cute) neighbour to plant sit when you’re away.
When they first moved in, the constant noise coming from their apartment drove you crazy. But when you went to confront them, their good looks completely threw you off. Since then, you’ve been giving them your plant whenever you travel. One day, they start sending plant updates with cute emojis. When you return, they hand back the plant, apologize for the noise… and ask you out.
You are at a silent disco, dancing by yourself when someone bumps into you.
That person clearly is listening to a different set, but slowly you both sync and dance together on beat, even though it is different songs. It’s like it’s just the two of you dancing to the rhythm of life, and there is no one else around.
You are working out alone and get stuck in the leg-press machine.
Before you could call out for help, your gym crush notices and helps you get out safely. You are obviously embarrassed, but instead he simply compliments you on your form AND your smile, and asks if you can spot them while doing bench press. And so the gym romance begins!
